However, none of this means that attraction isn’t important.Forgive me for putting this bluntly, friends, but marrying someone means vowing to have sex with them regularly for the rest of your life (health and old age allowing).
” Q&A, wherein a thirtysomething single female Marry Well-er gets an answer from Candice Watters.
’ I’m surprised how many people – both women and men – write to me because they’re worried that they ‘ought’ to date someone they’re not attracted to, and to insist on attraction would be superficial and un Godly.
Certainly, the Bible tells us that God looks not at outward appearances, but at the heart.
Biblical Christians, however, are called to think differently.
We are to use Scripture as the measure of our desires.