Play to your strengths, and you’ll come of as charming and worth getting to know.
As in, don’t show up with your pants off (this only works sometimes).
My faux leather jacket that looks like a real leather jacket… My vintage sweatshirt that makes everyone think I went to Harvard... My cat doing a mid-air backflip to catch a fish on a string???
If we have just met, or if we are talking about wallpaper, please do not think that I will be your guide to the land of lesbian sex.
Find one that feels right to you and you’re sure to meet other like-minded lesbians and bisexuals.
If you're not sure where to begin, start with this list of the places where you're most likely to run into other lesbians and bisexual women.A woman dressing in androgynous clothing, may/may not have a thing for girls.She might just really like clothing that actually fits her broad shoulders, or pants with pockets and shoes without heels.It lasts barely half a second, but that flit of eye contact can mean so much.Like an agreement or an acknowledgement or membership in a (not-so) secret club–a club called ‘lesbians.’ It’s a “you’re gay, I’m gay” kinda thing. No one’s going to believe in your game if you don’t believe in your game (even if you’re not the gaming type). Seriously, whoever you’re talking to is going to read off your cues, and so if you’re putting yourself down or always apologizing, she’ll believe you have reason to do so.