Now that I’m older, I just don’t feel like all the fuss is worth it. We started talking about meeting up but after giving it some thought, I realized that I was still upset about the last guy and that this would just be rebound and I was not ready to start dating anybody. He messages me back, kind of angrily, asking me why I was on a dating site if I wasn’t ready to date. Being busy with work and whatnot, I didn’t go back to online dating for several months.
I was meeting ex-girlfriend Michelle (See: Michelle – 2007 to Present – Nice to Meet You) for brunch on a Saturday. I’m having a beer and she can just come here when she’s finished. Please read, like, comment, and most of all follow Phicklephilly.I’m going to pick on a friend right now (sorry if you’re reading this, dude). I know women who have – get this – met men, dated them, and married them, all while having short hair!!!! Besides, I already have to get up at am to get to work. Guys are always complaining about how long it takes women to get ready. You’ve convinced us that we can’t leave the house without a face full of makeup! And the upkeep to make sure it still looks good by the end of the day??? What pisses me off is that women are EXPECTED to wear it, and they are told that their natural self, that they have been born with, is not beautiful. She plays with fake “makeup” and pretends to put it on. I told him that I thought I was ready but when we started making plans to meet, I realized I wasn’t ready. Once I did, I checked my OKC profile first and saw a message that this guy (from POF) had sent to me that said “I thought you weren’t ready to date? Now, I should have known better and left it alone but for some reason, I don’t like thinking there are people out there thinking badly of me.Said friend went to Europe and this is what he posted when he got back: And that kinda pissed me off, reading this while wearing no makeup except for whatever mascara had managed to last my 13 hour day, in my dirty scrubs, and in my sneakers that still had some blood on them from earlier that day that I couldn’t clean off. There’s now way I’m getting up any earlier to mess with my hair. And the specials potions and cloths we have to buy to take it all off at the end of the night??? She watches TV shows with girls wearing a ton of makeup (CARTOON girls for god sakes). Well, unless I deserve it, of course 😛 So I message him back (on OKC) and tell him that it was an old profile and that I wasn’t actively using it when I told him I wasn’t ready to date.The bartender may not see you and you’ll have to wait. Disney princes were recently outed on Grindr, much to the excitement of our 12-year-old-selves.